My Earliest Memories of Writing

Before writing came reading. And before reading came being read to.

In the days before television, my family would turn off the radio and read out loud at night. As a five year old, I sat on Daddy’s lap while Mother read, chapter by chapter, night after night: How Green Was My Valley, The Yearling, Old Yellar. I learned to convert the words to images in my head and see the story unfold. I would fall asleep under the spell of the words.

I think I was in the fifth grade when Sue Williams and I were sharing Bobbsey Twins books (mine) and Nancy Drew mysteries (hers). We decided, Sue and I, that we would write a book together. We named it “The Mistery of the Garden Gate.” Alas, we were stumped after the title and an opening paragraph.

It must have been seventh grade when I was given a locking five-year diary for a Christmas present. I tried to remember to write something every day, only to find that my life was pretty boring. When pre-teen angst set in, I pulled out my diary and wrote about confused feelings and made lists of ‘our’ music: Rock and Roll! My mother spouted back my list of songs at breakfast one day, so I knew she was reading my diary! I quit writing for awhile. In high school I learned Gregg shorthand so I could keep my diary secret. I knew my mother couldn’t decipher what I wrote; but then sometimes, I couldn’t either!

By fifteen I had my first steady boyfriend. Doug Walding gave me a two pound, heart-shaped box of candy each Valentines’ day. I kept scraps of paper hidden in the prettiest heart box.

I was a sassy teenager (said my mother) so I went silent in my critiques of whatever bothered me. I wrote a manifesto of how I would be when I grew up, listing ten points on which I would differ from her, and sealed the deal with a declaration that I would read this in ten years to see how well I had done. At age 24 I found that little note while cleaning out my former bedroom where I would store boxes as I left to join my husband (Doug Walding) at his Army post. I read the Note to Self exactly ten years to the date of when it was written. Spooky, huh!

Enough about ‘how it started.’ Tomorrow I’ll write about influences on my writing style.

3 thoughts on “My Earliest Memories of Writing

    1. Thanks, Amy, for taking the time to comment! I didn’t keep the written manifesto (probably should have). Mainly I laughed at the silliness of what I thought was so important at 14. Things like: “I will not hurt my back by mopping the floor bending over; I will maintain proper posture so my back won’t hurt.” The one that made the most sense, and the one I did adhere to was to not make an idle threat as I saw my mother do with my baby brother — ‘just wait till we get home!’ then no consequence would happen. I approached parenting seriously (but with good humor, I hope) and taught parenting classes using Systematic Training for Effective Parenting at my daughter’s preschool.

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